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Picnic

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We had the nephews over again last night. The two eldest, Quintus and Douglas. It was quite a lot of fun 🙂 They do make me laugh!

We all slept in, with the exception of Michael, who went for an early morning cycle. He came back a bit hot and bothered, as it was already hot out by 8:30, when he got back. He did do a personal best time, though, so was in good spirits.

(Got a bit grumpy later on and had to have a lie down 😉 )

We had a lovely lunch with family. Then came home (to have the lie down, in Michael’s case) and I made some muffins for the picnic.

The dogs reminded us that we urgently needed to take them for a walk, which we did. And then it was off again to the picnic.

My parents-in-law put up the most amazing Christmas lights in their front garden every year, and it is becoming somewhat of a tradition to have picnics in the evening to appreciate them. Very atmospheric and quite lovely! The children especially can’t get enough of the lights.

So all in all, it’s been quite a relaxing day.

I feel a bit better today than I did yesterday. Dare I hope that the relapse is indeed passing over?

The breathing thing is definitely better. I was only gasping for breath a little after the pizza. Not like yesterday, where every meal was uncomfortable and a battle to breath in a proper breath.

I did have one or two stabs of pain in my eyes during the day. Still worried about that. But at least I didn’t have the tell-tale headache behind my eyes, which is promising.

My left hand and left foot feel rather numb. Not my fave! But not too bad, in the scheme of things.

I think this heat-wave that we are having is not helping. I’m thinking (hoping) that once it is past, and also once the full moon is past (yes, I think the moon can make things worse, lol) everything might start improving.

So final verdict: I think it’s better today than it was, and I’m hopeful that it may pan out to be yet another mild relapse with no backbone.

Oh yes, and Mr Popper’s penguins is a crap movie. I miss Jim Carrey’s Ace Ventura days.

 

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December 29, 2012 at 11:11 pm

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Right on time for Christmas…

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Several posts ago, I mentioned that the reason for my grinchiness come Christmas was mostly due to the fact that for the most part of a decade, I would have a relapse over Christmas and my birthday that would invariably have to be treated by a five day stay in hospital on a cortisone drip.

I was chuffed to the point of smugness that since being on the Fingolimod/ Gilenya trials, I no longer had this  Damocles’ sword hanging over my head.

It appears that I spoke too soon 😦

Over the last couple of weeks, I’ve noticed old symptoms reappearing. I didn’t take too much notice of it, as I do have symptoms from time to time (usually coinciding with a fluctuation in hormone levels, or something that caused me a bit of stress etc.) They go away again in due time, and I have maintained that a relapse can’t really get going while I am on these meds. Can’t get a toe-hold.

My relapses these days are very mild and short-lived.

This particular one is starting to concern me.

In retrospect, the day I first started noticing problems was after I visited our local supermarket. I smelled a very nasty chemical smell in the store. I finished my shopping as quickly as I could and left. But I think the exposure to whatever chemical it was, caused some sort of auto-immune reaction in my body, Pure supposition, but the likeliest theory that I have.

I had a feeling of pressure, and a dull ache at the nape of my neck.

Next came an attack of optic neuritis, which still hasn’t really let up. This is the MS symptom I live in fear of the most. After being legally blind for a short period in my twenties, I have no wish to revisit that particular symptom.

Another non-favourite of mine is the shortness of breath that often accompanies a relapse for me. It is bizarrely linked to eating, and after meals I feel a bit distressed because of being unable to breathe as deeply as I would like. Not very nice.

I’m feeling a bit generally spaced-out, tired and ratty.

Not nice at all.

I don’t particularly want to treat with high-dose cortisone. It has so many crappy side-effects. Makes my skin chronically dry, makes me lose a lot of weight, affects my digestion, my hormones and makes me feel really sh*tty for a while after taking it. Plus, it’s a schlep!

So I’m really hoping this relapse is going to lose steam and fizzle out, the way others have since I’ve been on meds.

Not very pleasant in the meantime, however. It is not impacting my life hugely, but remains a big worry at the back of my mind. I feel I have to monitor it the whole time. MS sometimes takes and doesn’t give back. Or takes long to give back. Very scary.

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December 28, 2012 at 11:44 pm

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Fabulous Christmas

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What a lovely Christmas we had this year. Definitely one to look back on with fond memories.

On the 23rd, my parents hosted a full-on Christmas lunch. It fell on a Sunday, and my little sis and her little girl were visiting us. They were scheduled to go back to Jo’burg on the following Monday, so we decided to celebrate Christmas early with them 🙂

There was Christmassy gammon, roast potatoes, lamb, salads, veggies, and proper Christmas pudding for dessert. My mom flambéd that pudding good! 🙂 I love that part, when the brandy burns with that pretty blue flame.

On the actual Christmas day, I joined my mom at our church for the Christmas service, which was lovely. There is this nativity scene that they have had since I was a child. I vividly recall carrying one of the statues to the front of the church each year. All the kids in the congregation got to carry a piece of the nativity and it left a lasting impression on me. I felt such a sense of purpose as a little kids, contributing to the service in this way.

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Michael and I then had Christmas lunch on our own for the first time in our married life. It was wonderfully peaceful. I made a traditional Bobotie, yellow rice with raisins, and a green salad.

After that, we made the rounds, stopping off at various family members to wish them a happy Christmas.

We settled down at his parents place for quite a while to have Christmas cake and watch Rod Stewart’s Merry Christmas to you, baby… on tv. Very restful and beautiful.

Later that night, Michael downloaded the album on iTunes and we listened to the exquisite music till late in the evening, soaking up the atmosphere it created. It was rather a spiritual moment for both of us.

And finally, off to bed. And already looking forward to next Christmas 🙂

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December 28, 2012 at 10:56 pm

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Core strength

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I seem to be winning with the back pain.

I had a mini-epiphany today.

(Okay, not so much as an epiphany as a reminder of something I already know.)

The thing is, I know my sacro-illiac joint is unstable. It clicks in and out at the least provocation.

It’s actually a waste to go to the chiropractor, because I’m hardly home for five minutes (and in pain) before I turn slightly skew, or bend over and reach for an item, or something and out it pops again.

The reason the swimming helps is two-fold (I think). I suspect it aligns the joint in some way and also strengthens my back muscles which helps to keep the joint in.

But today I remembered how important a role core stomach muscles play in back health. The one thing I have learnt from my pilates/ yoga dvd is that whenever you do one of the movements, you first contract your stomach muscles. They form a protective band right around your back, from what I can gather.

So today, whenever I have had to bend/ reach/ get up from sitting/ lie down, whatever, I have engaged my core muscles and after only one day, it seems to be rather on the improved side!

We took the dogs for a walk and I kept my stomach muscles pulled in on every step.

(I am optimistic on the effect that this will have on my abs over time, lol. Call it a happy side effect 🙂 )

I think this may be a long-term solution for mySI-joint and back health.

I sincerely hope so, anyway.

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December 16, 2012 at 9:45 pm

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Oh, Christmas Tree

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I finally put up my Christmas tree. And by ‘finally’, I mean for the first time in nearly 12 years of marriage, lol.

Not too sure why I never did it before. It sure does make me happy to look at it.

My mother-in-law gave me the money as a Christmas gift to buy it. I got it on promotion at Pick ‘n Pay for R119 (not bad, hey?) It stands 90cm tall, perfect for our living-room. And has a pretty realistic fir-tree- look going.

It was so much fun to assemble. It comes all squashed up in the box. You have to put the different parts together, and then bend every branch in the way you think a fir tree should look. By the time I was finished I felt like I had practically gone to chop down the tree myself and dragged it in the house 🙂

With the rest of the money, I bought decorations for the tree. A pack of golden baubles, a tinselly type of thing with leaves and holly sprigs on it, and of course the angel for the top.

I spent about an hour decorating it, listening to Christmas music. It was so lovely, I will never have a Christmas without a tree again!

I’ll probably buy some more decorations for it over time, but I think this is a pretty good start.

Thanks, Mom! 🙂

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December 10, 2012 at 4:15 pm

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Bride’s Dream

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This rose plant was looking so peeky last year. It hardly made any blooms at all, and none of a good quality. Not compared to the first year I had it (2008) when it carried oodles of beautiful roses on long, thick stems.

And this year, It started looking like it wasn’t going to make it. Downright sad, in fact.

So I transplanted it into a larger pot, and (more importantly) Culterra’s rose-planting mix.

It seems to be back on track now.

For the October flush, it made 7 very presentable roses.

It is now busy with its second flush for the season and is looking quite lovely, with eleven buds. I’m so glad, as it’s one of my favourites. (Aw, who am I kidding? They’re all my favourites! 🙂 )

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December 8, 2012 at 10:15 pm

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Beary’s regrowth and a not-so-baby marrow

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Slightly stumped for a post tonight, so will instead just share two photo’s.

Firstly, Beary is looking so furry again, and it is barely a month since we had her fur cut so short…

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Secondly, I peeped under the leaves of my baby marrow plant, and there was a huge baby marrow hiding at the bottom. We had it for supper and it was delicious…

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December 7, 2012 at 11:24 pm

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Some more visiting with the nephews :-)

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Anthony and Douglas are sleeping at our home again tonight.

I think I had better get some sleep too, because they get up early.

We had a fun night.

I made my version of Sloppy Joes. Mince in a bun with tomato sauce. That went down well.

Then I spoke on the phone to my mom while Michael and the boys watched Dynamo. (Something about a street magician, I’m not all that into it, myself).

Michael went to sleep and Douglas played some games on the iPad.

I asked Anthony if he wanted to make a blow-up bunny. He said okay, but with the caveat that he is not crafty at all.

It turns out that he’s crafty enough to fold a bunny and draw a pretty cute face on it! He ended up by requesting that we make more bunnies and admitted that it is pretty fun. I believe the word he used was ‘awesome’. 🙂

Tomorrow, we will play some table-tennis and after that, we have been invited for lunch by the boys’ ouma, a.k.a my dear Mother-in-law 🙂

And we’ll say goodbye to Michael’s dad, who is going on a much-anticipated trip to Zimbabwe on an expedition to see a rare bird there.

Good times!

 

 

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December 6, 2012 at 11:30 pm

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Skirts :-)

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I had a really nice day in town yesterday.

I asked Michael if I could take the car for the afternoon. He said I could, but then I’d have to take it to have its tyre fixed and swapped. He’d had a flat that morning, and had had to put on the spare. And it’s dicey to drive around without a spare, so it had to be fixed asap.

I’m not too fond of doing ‘car stuff’. As far as I’m concerned, we have a magic car. It’s fuel level magically rises when it starts looking a bit empty and it keeps itself in tip-top shape.

Michael is a little bitter about this, seeing as he is the magic behind the car, always taking care of services, tyre pressure, re-fuelling etc.

Anyway, I wanted the car, so had to do some ‘car stuff’ for a change.

It wasn’t bad. The staff were so friendly and helpful. They were quick about it and only charged me R40. I quite enjoyed the whole thing.

And while I was waiting there, I got a call from Michael asking if I wanted to join him for a quick Wimpy coffee. Wimpy is next door to the tyre place, and Michael happened to be driving past with one of his work vehicles. So we did just that.

Before that, I went to find out about getting us an additional remote for our gate. Since the electric gate’s motor has been replaced, we only have one remote between us and it is very inconvenient. Unfortunately the store is out of stock and are only getting in on Wednesday. But at least I put my order in.

Then I went to GAME and drooled over Christmas trees a bit. Didn’t buy any yet though.

Then I went on a very specific clothes shopping expedition. I need some new clothes, and got it into my head that I want some skirts. I’m not really a dress kind of gal, but all the colourful skirts that are currently in fashion look so nice. I feel extremely uncomfortable in a dress, but quite like a skirt. So that was the mission.

First stop: Woolworths.

Nothing particularly caught my eye, and the stuff was hellishly expensive. There was a dress there for R445! I did see a top that I liked a lot which I may go back for, but the dresses/ pants/ skirts would take up my whole budget on one item.

Next stop: Fashion World. I always like their displays in the window but have never been in. As the shop came into sight, I immediately saw a lovely outfit in the window. Just what I was looking for. I went in, found it on the rack and tried the whole ensemble on in the fitting rooms. Now, lately I have gotten stuck on Mr Price’s clothes. And when you try something on there, you leave feeling like an old hag. The lighting is SO unflattering. And the clothes look nice enough on the rack, but don’t seem to fit that well when you try them on. Maybe it’s just me.

But Fashion World’s fitting rooms are magical. The lighting is flattering and there are plenty of hooks to hang the clothes on.

I must say, the shop assistant was pretty surly. I had to interrupt her conversation that she was having with a colleague (while they were folding clothes) to get some service. And she didn’t look happy about it.

Still, I’m happy with my new skirts. And they cost me less than R200 for both of them. Bargain.

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December 5, 2012 at 10:13 pm

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Visiting nephews

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There will not be too much blogging going on tonight.

See below for reason why. Visitors! (And yes, it is nearly midnight and we are all still awake (except for Uncle Michael, who is asleep).

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December 4, 2012 at 11:59 pm

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